Failure: The state or condition of not meeting a desirable or intended objective, and may be viewed as the opposite of success basically, lack of success. Rejection: The act of refusing to accept, use, or believe someone or something. I’ll start with a disclaimer; one of the reasons I rarely publish my drafts is the … Continue reading The Two Dreaded Friends
Shaking tables as usual
No one wants to be wrong. It stinks and Spells failure all over. No one wants to lose or wakes up with intentionality to be the worst. We all love wins and want to eat, breath, sweat and die winning if we could. We want a Picture perfect life with the right amount of the white picket fence effect for the rest to click at. We want to stand out for all the right reasons. We have trained ourselves to accept a narrative that would feed this aspect or at least I had.
I spent a life time running from my past. Making mistakes and gently sweeping them under the rug. I mean a righteous man falls seven times. Well let’s just say I made this falling thing a profession. There was always something or someone to blame for every reaction and action in my life. I was an award…
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Procrastination is one of the biggest enemies of our productivity
and progress. Everyone wants to live a happier life, drive a better car, earn
more money, build a bigger house, be healthier, etc. The key to achieving this
is to learn how to get more and better results.
According to Tim Urban, in the brain of a non-procrastinator
lives a rational decision maker who is in control of all the actions s/he
takes, while the brain of a procrastinator has both the decision maker and an
instant gratification monkey. When a procrastinator is presented with a task or
an assignment, the rational decision maker quickly decides that today is the perfect
day to get some work done, but the monkey doesn’t like that plan. The monkey
takes over and decides that today is a good day to rest, watch an episode of
the blacklist, go visiting, or do whatever it…
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Ever had those moments, where all was well, the breeze is as it should, loved ones doing the most to assure you of their love and affection towards you? Yet the minute you close that door, after that sweet warm hug, there it is That gushing, a raid, an avalanche, a hurt so tangible, A … Continue reading Abyss Of Pain
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Sometimes it comes out of no where but I have learnt to see the tides and try to embrace them. In case you are wondering what I am referring to, well, I’ll just let the cat out of the bag. I suffer from depression and social anxiety, I don’t like meeting new people or being in crowds; its just a lot of work and stress because it includes pre planned conversations days before per new person (Imagine the stress if it were 50 people. I wish I would be given a list way before), sweaty palms, fidgeting and a lot of worry. If I fall out of just one pre planned conversation, I feel like the ground should play its back up plan of swallowing me because I immediately feel low and weird.
I constantly withdraw from the social life and focus on getting my mental health in…
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Safely tucked away from the noise and bustle of Kampala's heat and traffic is Nyanja Restaurant at Speke Resort Munyonyo. The restaurant is a quiet, well-spaced place with a serene environment to match. The green gardens are surrounded by tall palms that graciously swing to give that rich people-soothing breeze. My heart was captured. To … Continue reading Wine and Dine at Speke Resort
I have had my share of failed relationships, flings annndddd wait for it "assumptionships". Yes. You read right: An assumed relationship. Growing up, I have found myself dating or seeing guys who enjoy the benefits that come with 'being seen' but aren't really committed to me or ready for relationships. This guy talks about exclusivity, … Continue reading Letter to the women left behind
"How do you do it? Smile all the time, be kind, tough but with love to give?" "What is your source?" "Do you ever run dry, get tired and fed up?" "Yes," she responded, thinks for a few minutes, recalls that 45 minutes ago she almost called it quits. You see this is the thing … Continue reading Do You Ever Run Out?
7pm, yipeeeyyy *signs ad rota, finalizes studio works, prepares to dash out* You see I honestly should stay longer, there is a pending report to be submitted but the WiFi and laptop are not buying my urgency. So why not go treat myself to something...after all there is always another day, right? After all God … Continue reading The Lone Eater
"Mulungi, you need to start writing, you can do it" "Blogging isn't for a special few, even if it were- why shouldn't you be one of them", he said while smiling and reminding me that my insecurities don't count. Joel Benjamin Ntwatwa, mostly called Nevender or Nev if you may was something! He always kept … Continue reading Fare Thee Well, Nev